Wednesday, March 31, 2010
We say No to the President of Somaliland for his illegitimate dismissal of Hargeisa Regional Health Board
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We say No to the President of Somaliland for his illegitimate dismissal of Hargeisa Regional Health Board
This misuse of power tantamount to dictatorial tendency of President Riyale, and if not checked will damage the health of our nascent democracy, Democracy cannot survive without good governance build upon accountability, transparency and respect of law.
We say No to that, and no to a group selected by the government without consulting the people in Hargeisa region. Please sign this and add your voice.
UN CHIEF ACCEPTS PAKISTAN’S REQUEST TO DELAY RELEASE OF REPORT ON BHUTTO KILLING
The presentation of the report of the independent United Nations probe looking into the facts and circumstances of the December 2007 assassination of former Pakistani prime minister Benazir Bhutto, which had been scheduled for today, has been delayed until 15 April at the request of the country's President.
"The Secretary-General has accepted an urgent request by the President of Pakistan [Asif Ali Zardari, the widower of Ms. Bhutto] to delay the presentation of the report of the Commission of Inquiry," a spokesperson for Ban Ki-moon said in a <"http://www.un.org/apps/sg/sgstats.asp?nid=4465">statement.
The three-member Commission, headed by Chilean Ambassador Heraldo Muñoz, was set up following a request from the Pakistani Government and began its work in July 2009.
Mr. Ban met today in New York with the members of the Commission, which also includes Marzuki Darusman, the former attorney-general of Indonesia, and Peter Fitzgerald, a veteran of the Irish National Police who has also served the UN in a number of capacities.
"The Commission has informed the Secretary-General that, as of today, all relevant facts and circumstances have been explored, and the report is now complete and ready to be delivered," the statement added.
The Commission, whose term ends tomorrow, will submit its report to Mr. Ban, who will share the report with the Pakistani Government and submit it to the Security Council for information.
Guinean Lawyers Call for Improvements to Justice System
Anne Look | Dakar VOA
UN Mission in West Africa Encouraged by Guinea Vote Preparations
Guinea Interim Military Leader Will Not Run in June Elections
Military Leader Warns Guinea Soldiers About Sabotaging Transition
Guinea's legal community took advantage of the opening of this year's first criminal court session in Conakry to call for an end to years of interference by the executive branch in the justice system.
Guinea opened its first 2010 session of criminal court this week to hear 115 cases, four of which are cases of international drug trafficking. Other charges include murder, rape, arson and armed robbery.
Guinea's legal community expressed hope this new court session and the country's new transitional, power-sharing government under Prime Minister Jean-Marie Dore would usher in much-needed improvements to the country's justice system, including increased respect of legal protocol and a decrease in executive influence on the judiciary.
Court chairman Doura Cherif called for the application of a law that lays out the proper procedure for appointing judges.
He says in 19 years, no president or government minister has been able to apply this measure. He says dominating the justice system is part of an old power structure based on traditional chiefdom that is difficult to reconcile with principles like the separation of judicial and executive powers.
Guinea's bar association president Mohamed Sampil says the four drug trafficking cases before the court present particular challenges.
Sampil says the impending trial is marked by issues like serious procedural violations, human rights violations, interference by the executive branch, the summoning of the judges assigned to the cases, and excessive media coverage of those accused of drug trafficking.
Sampil deplored the dysfunctional state of Guinea's legal system, particularly its lack of regularity in holding criminal courts and the subsequent long detentions of prisoners awaiting trial.
State Prosecutor Paul Fofana responded that by law prisoners can not be detained more than 12 months before trial, excluding those charged with crimes like drug trafficking and pedophilia who can be held up to 24 months.
Fofana says despite incidents that have drawn out the process, judicial standards with regards to detention have been observed up to this point.
The state prosecutor says the trials are also an opportunity to demonstrate Guinea's commitment in the fight against international drug trafficking.
Iraq's Elections Show Hope of a Developing Democracy
Following the Iraqi elections, 15 Iraqi female provincial council members met with USIP experts to discuss ways to advance women's rights in Iraq and their hopes for the incoming Iraqi government. Several of the provincial council members are part of the USIP Network of Iraqi Facilitators or participated in the Diyala Declaration process. Learn more about the Diyala Declaration andNetwork of Iraqi Facilitators. Additionally, read USIP's Manal Omar analysis of the Iraqi elections, their significance for Iraq, U.S. relations and the region. Omar also discusses the Institute's work to foster women's representation and participation in Iraq.
President Obama Asks Afghan President for Greater Cooperation on Corruption
President Barack Obama made a surprise visit to Afghanistan over the weekend, marking his first trip there as commander-in-chief. He noted that progress has been made, but cited a need for more work in civilian-related areas, such as the rule of law. The president specifically called upon Afghan President Hamid Karzai to do more to combat corruption.
Learn more about USIP's initiatives to help stabilize the country.
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Autism and the Somali Community: What You Need to Know
By now, most of you have heard about this disorder commonly referred to as Autism. This is a disorder most of us were unfamiliar with before migrating to the West. Yet it has affected many of our children. Most of us know children or families who've been afflicted with this disorder. This article will be focusing on what the signs and symptoms are, as well as the services currently available for children living with Autism. What is Autism? Autism spectrum disorders are a range of disorders which manifest in three ways: impaired social interaction, problems with communication and abnormal behaviors (e.g., repetitive behavior). The most common is Autism, which will be focused on in this article. Why Somalis should be concerned Recently, the Center for Disease Control raised the number of children in the US with Autism, from 1 in 150, to 1 in 110. This is a staggering jump in a country with a population of 315 million. Unfortunately, since many Somalis are recent immigrants, research has been very limited in this field. Despite this, there have been some media reports; the NY Times profiled Minnesota Somalis twice last year, regarding a possible cluster of Autism in Minneapolis's Somali community. In April 2009, the Minnesota Department of Health confirmed the fears of Somali families: Somali children were found to be represented in Autism education programs 2 to 7 times greater than non-Somali students. Researchers in Minneapolis and neighboring St. Cloud are presently trying to determine what the true prevalence of Autism is amongst Somalis in Minnesota. Amongst Ohio Somalis, no formal studies have been commissioned as of yet. In my work at Nationwide Children's Hospital in the Speech Therapy Department, I can confidently say that the Somali children we serve are increasingly children with a diagnosis of Autism. Signs and Symptoms? · Little or no eye contact · For infants, no babbling or pointing to different things · No single words by 16 months, or 2-word phrases by 2 years of age · No response to one's name or simple directions · Lining up of toys and other rigid, repetitive behavior · Child may have had language/social skills at one time, but lost those skills · Echolalia: the child will repeat words, phrases or sentences which you say several times. Children may also repeat lines from TV shows or movies several times. Most of us have heard Somali people say the following: "if the child's not talking, don't worry! The child will grow out of it." I've heard this first hand from Somali mothers of children with Autism. While this may be true for a few children, late talking is one of the symptoms of Autism. If you recognize these signs/symptoms in your children, you should contact your family doctor right away. Your family doctor will refer you to professionals trained in diagnosing Autism (developmental doctors, psychologists etc). If a diagnosis is made, your doctor will write you referrals for services, depending on the age of the child. What treatments are available? Typically for young children (0-3), services are administered through early intervention where the child will have access to occupational therapists, speech therapists, and other professionals. Once a child reaches the age of 3, there are special needs preschools and kindergartens designed to provide intensive services. Once a child is school aged, an assessment will be completed to see if the child qualifies for what is called an Individualized Education Plan (IEP). The symptoms of children with Autism vary from case to case; some children display average language skills, while others will be severely delayed. Children with more moderate to severe Autism are usually provided an IEP. The creation of an IEP leads to greater accommodations made for the student in the classroom and additional services which may include occupational therapy, ABA therapy, and speech therapy. Early intervention is key! Research has shown that outcomes are best for children who receive an early diagnosis, and start receiving treatment early. The earlier a child is assessed (and treated), the better. What you can do 1. Contact the departments of health and education in your own city, and encourage them to commission studies looking into the autism prevalence in the Somali community. The key to the positive response of the local and state government in Minnesota was due in large part to the advocacy of Somali parents with children with Autism. More studies need to be done to assess the prevalence of Autism. Once researchers and health professionals better understand the numbers, treatment options will become more customized to the Somali population. 2. Become more involved in your children's schools and hospitals. Engagement with the greater community will provide Somalis with a greater voice wherever they may be. 3. Spread this information to all of your family members. Sirad Shirdon |
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Norway: Bushra Ishaq & Abid Q. Raja to receive Fritt Ord Award
Norway: Bushra Ishaq & Abid Q. Raja to receive Fritt Ord Award |
Female Muslim doctors allowed to wear disposable sleeves
UK: Female Muslim doctors allowed to wear disposable sleeves |
Human Rights Council condemns Swiss minaret ban
UN: Human Rights Council condemns Swiss minaret ban |
Sunday, March 28, 2010
Iraqi foreign minister walks out of Libya meeting
By KHALED AL-DEEB (AP) –
SIRITE, Libya — Iraqi Foreign Minister Hoshyar Zebari briefly walked out Thursday of an Arab League ministerial meeting held in Libya to protest against Moammar Gadhafi's declared support for Saddam Hussein loyalists, delegates said.
They said Zebari stormed out after he told his Arab peers that his government was angry over public comments by Gadhafi pledging support to a group of Saddam loyalists he met in Libya earlier this week.
The group included senior commanders of Iraq's Saddam-era army and officials from his outlawed Baath Party.
On Wednesday, Iraqi government spokesman Ali al-Dabbagh condemned Gadhafi's Sunday meeting with the 29 Saddam loyalists, describing the move as "undiplomatic" and an "insult" to the people of Iraq.
Iraq's post-Saddam governments are particularly sensitive to any contacts between foreign governments and Saddam loyalists. It views such meetings as an attempt to undermine their legitimacy and casting doubt on the right of the country's Shiite Muslim majority to be the country's most dominant political group.
The Saddam loyalists are almost exclusively from the rival Sunni branch of Islam.
Zebari later rejoined the meeting following a mediation by the foreign ministers of Bahrain and Kuwait, according to the delegates. They had no details on the mediation.
The annual Arab League summit and meetings held just before them are often plagued by no-shows — mostly because of personal disputes among leaders — and on-camera spats.
The meeting that Zebari walked out on was trying to hammer out an agenda for the Arab summit scheduled for Saturday and which is expected to be dominated by the stalled Middle East peace process.
In an opening statement, Libyan Foreign Minister Moussa Kosa blamed the deadlock on Israel's "obstinacy" and the "bias" by the West against Arabs.
The Palestinians are seeking a strong Arab stance in the face of Israel's plans to expand Jewish housing in east Jerusalem. They also want millions of dollars in funding for Palestinians living in that section of the city. Arabs view Israeli building in east Jerusalem as disruptive to Mideast peacemaking.
The ministers agreed to recommend to their leaders fulfilling a request by the Palestinian Authority to raise funding for Palestinians living in east Jerusalem from $150 million to $500 million annually, according to Secretary General Amr Moussa afterwards.
They will also recommend creating a new permanent Arab League commissioner position to follow the issue of Jerusalem.
Earlier this month, Arab nations opened the door for Palestinian President Mahmoud Abbas to enter four months of indirect, American-brokered peace talks with Israel. But they later threatened to withdraw support for the indirect talks because of recent Israeli announcements on plans for new settlement building.
Jordan's King Abdullah II warned Israel on Thursday that it is playing with fire over its settlement policy and that the Jewish state must decide whether it wants peace or war.
Abdullah said Israel must take "tangible actions" toward ending settlements and returning to negotiations with Palestinians if it wants peace.
Israel recently announced new housing plans for east Jerusalem, which it captured from Jordan in the 1967 Mideast war and annexed shortly after. The Palestinians want east Jerusalem as the capital of a future state.
The summit's agenda also deals with other Middle East issues such the West's standoff with Iran over its nuclear program, the situation in Iraq and Sudan.
The summit is likely to register a higher-than-usual no-shows by Arab leaders.
Egyptian President Hosni Mubarak, recuperating from a gall bladder operation in Germany, will not go and is sending his prime minister in his place. Lebanon's top leaders are staying away over a decades-old dispute with Tripoli over the 1978 disappearance of a top Lebanese Shiite cleric who was last seen in Libya.
Tripoli denies having any connection with the case.
Instead Lebanon is sending its Arab League's envoy to the March 27-28 summit.
Associated Press writer Salah Nasrawi contributed to this repo
Arab League Summit:Back to the sixties ... Gaddafi style!
By Amr El Kahky in
Photo from AFP
The atmosphere is that of the sixties.
That's what journalists felt while covering the 22nd Arab League summit in the Libyan city of Sirte, while listening to those songs - songs by Abdel-Halim Hafez, the famous Egyptian singer who used to sing for late Egyptian President Gamal Abdel Nasser in the fifties and sixties and who sang long for pan-Arab nationalism.
These songs were played many times in the conference corridors and inside the press centre with video of the Libyan leader Muammar Gaddafi.
This apparently suggests he's the new unifier of the Arab World that's been sharply divided on almost every issue in today's world.
This isn't strange for those who travel to Libya a lot. The North African Arab country has been ruled by Gaddafi for more than four decades since he came to power on the first of September 1969 overthrowing King Idris Senoussi.
Gaddafi has always seen himself as Nasser's natural successor as a unifying factor and the leader of the ummah.
The longest serving Arab leader has tried to forge several unity projects with a number of Arab nations such as Egypt, Syria and Sudan.
These attempts were no doubt a failure due to the lack of political will, and perhaps because leaders of these nations refused to allow such a maverick politician to lead them even if that was on rotational basis.
But Gaddafi succeeded in forging one Arab Union, namely the Maghreb Union. But that gathering has finally stopped functioning. Now it's just ink on paper.
Turning to the poor African Continent, Gaddafi managed to achieve his ambition - the creation of the African Union to replace the Organization of African Unity.
That took place on 9/9/99 in Sirte, the city that's hosting the Arab summit in 2010.
This is the first time ever, Libya hosts the most prestigious Arab gathering, and unity was on Gaddafi's mind as well as on banners and slogans of the small, quite city.
He's called it the summit of unity and solidarity, asking all Arab leaders to put aside their differences, get together and agree on a unified stand on all issues.
Gaddafi's opening speech at the summit lasted almost twenty minutes, one of his shortest.
Half of the speech was dedicated to explain the history of Sirte, his home town.
He made the odd joke here and there, with the Emir of Qatar and the Palestinian President Mahmoud Abbas.
But he did not make scenes like those in Doha in the 2009 summit, when he had an exchange with the Saudi King. Maybe because he's the host.
But the summit is lasting for two days and there's still time for such scenes - scenes that are said to have created tension among organisers and Arab league officials.
"Oh unifier of the Arabs", still comes Abdel Halim Hafez's voice through the speakers of the conference hall in Sirte, bringing to memories those feelings of the sixties: nostalgic for some, notorious for others.
Iraqi vote winner hopes to form government soon
BAGHDAD: The top vote-getter in Iraq's parliamentary elections says he wants to negotiate with all parties to form a government that can restore Iraq's place in the Arab and Muslim world.
Peace process may be a total failure: Moussa
Arab League Secretary General Amr Moussa addresses to media during a press conference in Sirte, Libya. (EPA)
By AGENCIES
SIRTE, Libya: Arab leaders opened a summit on Saturday determined to send a clear warning that the Middle East peace process is doomed unless Israel freezes Jewish settlements in annexed east Jerusalem.
Arab League Secretary-General Amr Moussa said Arab states should prepare for the possibility that the Palestinian-Israeli peace process may be a total failure and come up with alternatives.
Palestinian leader Mahmoud Abbas set the tone when he ruled out US-brokered peace talks with Israel unless the Jewish state backs down on settlements and pleaded with Arab leaders to "rescue" Jerusalem.
"We cannot resume indirect negotiations as long as Israel maintains its settlement policy and the status quo," Abbas said in a speech at the start of the two-day summit.
Abbas, who was speaking after UN chief Ban Ki-moon, urged Arab leaders to help facilitate the US-brokered talks, accused Israel of working to alter the Arab identity of Jerusalem with "ethnic cleansing." "We have always said that Jerusalem is the jewel in the crown and the gate to peace," Abbas said, who insisted that Israeli-annexed east Jerusalem must be the capital of a future Palestinian state.
Moussa did not say what the alternatives to the peace process might be, but one option is to revive an eight-year-old initiative under which Arab states would normalize ties with the Jewish state in exchange for Israeli concessions on territory.
The alternative to the stalled peace process, which is favored by many states in the region is the Arab Peace Initiative, first proposed by Saudi Arabia at an Arab League summit in Beirut in 2002.
Under that initiative, Arab countries would normalize relations with Israel in return for a complete Israeli withdrawal from occupied territories and a fair settlement for Palestinian refugees.
Speaking to Arab leaders at a summit of the Arab League in the Libyan town of Sirte, Moussa said a fresh approach was needed.
"We have to study the possibility that the peace process will be a complete failure," Moussa said. "It's time to face Israel. We have to have alternative plans because the situation has reached a turning point.
"The peace process has entered a new stage, perhaps the last stage. We have accepted the efforts of mediators. We have accepted an open-ended peace process." "But that resulted in a loss of time and we did not achieve anything and allowed Israel to practise its policy for 20 years," he said.
The UN chief, also addressing the summit, appealed for Arab backing for the "proximity" indirect talks between Israel and the Palestinians, saying "our common goal should be to resolve all final-status issues within 24 months." Ban also reiterated that Israel's settlement activity in east Jerusalem was "illegal" and stressed "Jerusalem's significance to all must be respected, and it should emerge from negotiations as the capital of two states."
Turkish Prime Minister Recep Tayyip Erdogan, another guest speaker, blasted Israel's policy of considering and treating with the whole of Jerusalem as its united capital as "madness." "Jerusalem is the apple of the eye of each and every Muslim ... and we cannot at all accept any Israeli violation in Jerusalem or in Muslim sites," Erdogan said.
"If Jerusalem burns, all of Palestine will burn, and if Palestine burns then all of the Middle East will be afire," Erdogan warned.
Italian Prime Minister Silvio Berlusconi, who was likewise invited by Libyan leader Muammar Gaddafi to address the summit, said "now is the time to give peace a chance." "We have the possibility, we have the responsibility and we feel the urgency," Berlusconi said.
He hoped that hardline Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu "will respond to the call made by the international community to improve the living conditions of Palestinians," especially in the Gaza Strip.
The 13 Arab leaders along with Gaddafi attending the summit are expected to adopt a resolution to raise 500 million dollars in aid to improve living conditions for Jerusalem Palestinians as part of a "rescue plan."
The Arab League chief also said the 22-member organization should start talking to Tehran to address concerns, especially strong among Iran's neighbors across the Persian Gulf, about its nuclear program. "I know there is a worry among Arabs regarding Iran but this situation confirms the necessity of a dialogue with Iran," Moussa said in his speech.
Erdogan, whose country's traditionally warm relations with Israel have soured in the past few months, was a guest at the summit and he accepted an offer to form a new regional grouping of Turkey and the Arab League.
Israelis quit Gaza after worst clash in over a year
Islamic Jihad militants take part in a rally in Gaza City. (REUTERS)
By NIDAL AL-MUGHRABI | REUTERS
GAZA: Israeli troops and tanks left the Gaza Strip on Saturday, witnesses said, after the bloodiest clash in the Hamas-ruled enclave in 14 months killed two soldiers and a Palestinian.
The violence underscored the deadlock in US-mediated contacts between Israel and Palestinian President Mahmoud Abbas, whose peacemaking bids have been sapped by Hamas hostility along with continued Israeli settlement construction on occupied land.
Resisting US pressure in what analysts called a bruising encounter with President Barack Obama in Washington this week, Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu said Israel would not stop building in West Bank areas it annexed to East Jerusalem.
Obama wants Israel to halt settlement in East Jerusalem, an issue that created new friction when a plan to build 1,600 more houses was published as Vice President Joe Biden visited to urge "proximity talks" with US mediation. The Arab League, which had given its blessing to indirect Israeli-Palestinian negotiations, signalled a major review in strategy.
"We have to study the possibility that the peace process will be a complete failure," League Secretary-General Amr Moussa told Arab leaders gathered in the Libyan town of Sirte.
"It's time to face Israel. We have to have alternative plans because the situation has reached a turning point," he said.
The impasse has triggered sporadic rocket attacks this month from Gaza which drew Israeli airstrikes. On Friday, Palestinians ambushed soldiers who, the army said, had crossed the border to dismantle a mine. Two infantrymen were killed and two wounded.
MAXIMUM RESTRAINT The clashes, in which the army said it believed it had killed two gunmen, was the fiercest since the three-week Gaza war of early 2009. Some 1,400 Palestinians, mainly civilians, and 13 Israelis, mainly troops, died in that conflict.
Islamist Hamas spurns the Jewish state but has largely held fire since the war. It said its men took part in Friday's fighting, but only in order to repel the Israeli incursion.
"We have been used to seeing breakaway (Palestinian) groups doing the firing, and Hamas trying to calm things down. Possibly it is loosening its grip, for all sorts of reasons," Israeli Defense Minister Ehud Barak said in a television interview.
"Should that indeed prove to be the case, then there will also be ramifications for Hamas," he said, but added: "We have no interest in returning the region to what was in the past." UN Secretary-General Ban Ki-moon, who during a visit to the region this month urged Israel to lift a Gaza embargo tightened after Hamas took over in 2007, also voiced concern.
"I reiterate my appeals ... for maximum restraint and an end to all violence, in particular at this critical time when we are engaged in efforts to revive peace talks," he said in Sirte, on the sidelines of the Arab League summit.
Gazan doctors said a 23-year-old Palestinian was killed in the clash near the town of Khan Younis, and five others wounded.
The dead man, identified as a civilian, was given a hero's funeral on Saturday, with scores of masked gunmen marching among the hundreds of mourners. "Martyr, rest in peace, and we will continue the struggle," they chanted.
Israel captured Gaza, the West Bank and East Jerusalem from Egypt and Jordan in a 1967 war. It withdrew from Gaza in 2005 but has expanded Jewish settlements in the West Bank and East Jerusalem. Palestinians want statehood in all the territories.
11 tips for Muslim couples dealing with marital disputes in the West
11 tips for Muslim couples dealing with marital disputes in the West
Marriages usually start off so nicely. Everyone cooperates-the couple, their parents, other relatives, friends. Things usually run smoothly.
But somewhere along the way, marital disputes pop up. This is of course natural, but these can escalate to dangerous levels if not dealt with correctly.
Sound Vision spoke to Shahina Siddiqui of the Islamic Social Services Association of the United States and Canada (ISSA) about tips for couples dealing with marital disputes. She pinpointed some problems and provided tips on how to deal with them.
1. Money
Couples argue over many things but money is by far one of the most frequent and serious. The solution is to discuss issues openly and consult within the family.
For instance, the issue of a wife working outside the home can become a contentious one. This should preferably be discussed before marriage. Also, if she does decide to work and the husband agrees, does she want to contribute a certain portion to household expenses or will she keep all of the money for herself (which is her right)?
One of the ways to avoid arguments about money is to simply make an easy budget which tracks expenses, income, investments, and establishes a framework for taking care of regular family necessities (see asample budget for a family.
Also, learn how to make a budget and deal with debt. If you are a young student, keep in mind you have to pay off student loans. You should also know where to get interest-free loans and what assistance is available (for more information about Islamic money issues, check out Sound Vision's money page.
2. In-laws
In-laws are the focus of blame and reproach when there are marital disputes. But there are ways to maintain a good relationship with them. Here are some tips:
a. Remember your spouse's parents have known them longer and loved them longer. Never make an issue about "me or them".
b. Let respective parties settle their own disputes. If your mother-in-law has a problem with her husband, let them deal with it. Don't interfere
c. Don't tell your spouse how to improve their relationship with their parents.
d. Expect some adjustment time for parents after marriage to adjust to this new relationship.
e. Remember that mothers are usually skeptical about daughter-in-laws and fathers about son-in-laws.
e. Always treat your in-laws with compassion, respect and mercy.
f. Maintain a balance between your needs and that of your in-laws.
g. Never compare your wife to your mother or your husband to your dad.
h. Do not go to your parents with your quarrels.
i. If you are supporting your parents financially inform your spouse as a matter of courtesy and clarity.
j. Do not forbid your spouse from seeing family unless you fear for their religion and safety.
k.Do not divulge secrets.
l. Make time to know your in-laws but stay out of their disputes.
m. Maintain the Adab (etiquettes) of Islam with your sister- and brother-in-laws (i.e.no hugging or kissing).
n. You are not obliged to spend every weekend with your in-laws.
o. Give grandparents easy and reasonable access to their grandchildren.
p. Be forgiving and keep your sense of humor.
q. Remember that nobody can interfere or influence your marriage unless you allow them to.
r. Invite in-laws at least once a month for a meal.
s. Visit them when you can and encourage your spouse to visit their parents and regularly check on them.
t. When parents become dependent on their children, a serious discussion with all parties present should take place. Expectations and requirements of such a living arrangement must be worked out.
3. Parenting
The tug of war that results from differing understandings of parenting are also a source of tension in marriage. One solution is to start learning about Islamic parenting before having children. If you already have kids, you can still learn. Check outSound Vision's parenting page. Or contact organizations like ISSA for resources.
4. Stress
Stress is an almost constant factor in most people's lives in North America. Muslim couples are no exception. Stress from work, for example, is carried into the home.
Couples and families need to work out a coping mechanism in the family. For instance, couples can take a walk to talk about the day or go to the Masjid for at least one prayer. They can read Quran individually or together. The methods can vary, but as long as they are Halal and work, they can be used.
5. Domestic violence
This is an extremely sad reality and unless it is dealt with promptly by victims, perpetrators and/or those concerned about the two, then the family will break. Seeking help is necessary and if domestic violence is not stopped, the destructive effects will not only be harmful to the husband and wife, but to their children as well.
Family members, friends and Imams need to stop the abuse. They must intervene and work on getting help for the husband and the wife.
6. Spiritual incompatibility
This is a growing problem in North America, where Muslims from all around the world live and different understandings of Islam are present. There is a disturbing lack of tolerance amongst young Muslims, especially, who may get sucked into cult-like groups which preach a "we're right and everyone else is wrong" mentality, whether the issue is where you put your hands in prayer or whether you decide to wear Western clothes or traditional Eastern ones.
This intolerance is being transferred to marriages, where a couple may differ on minor points of faith. Married couples must understand the difference between an Islamically acceptable difference of opinion and one that is not. They must develop a tolerance, balance and respect for their differences on that basis.
7. Sexual dysfunction
This is one of the least talked about problems, but it is one that is wreaking havoc in a number of marriages. Many couples who are marrying are not learning the Islamic perspective on sex and marriage. As a result, when they are not satisfied with their spouse, a number of them may turn to others or seek easy divorce, instead of a solution.
Couples have to understand that the marital relationship in this area, as in others, needs work and patience and cannot be the subject of whims and impatience. Knowledge, practice and if possible, the advice of a wise, compassionate scholar are two key elements in finding a solution to this problem.
8. Interfaith marriages
Islam forbids marriage between Muslim women and non-Muslim men. There are a number of Muslim women who have taken this step and regretted it later. Such an action, in most Muslim families, results in the woman being isolated from her family with no support. As a result, when marital disputes do arise, parental support, which is there for many Muslim couples, is not there for these women. These Muslim women may also experience guilt for disobeying Allah and hurting their parents.
In other cases, Muslim women ask non-Muslim men they want to marry to convert shortly before the marriage to appease their parents. Again this can lead to marital disputes. Two things usually happen. Either the man becomes a truly practicing Muslim and the couple is no longer compatible; or he's bombarded with Muslims from the community wanting to invite him to Islam and he gets upset and may hate Islam.
In the case of Muslim men marrying Jewish and Christian women, the situation is different. While Islam does allow this, Muslim men marrying Jews and Christians need to remember that living in the West, if they end up divorcing, the children will almost automatically be given to the mother. Also, remember that the mother is the child's most important school. If you want your kids to grow up as practicing Muslims, you are better off marrying a practicing Muslim woman, especially in the West, where the unIslamic cultural influences outside the home are strong enough. Inside the home, it will become even harder to maintain Islamic influences if a mother is not a practicing Muslim herself.
9. Intercultural marriages
While Islam does not forbid intercultural marriages, they can become a source of tension when Muslims, primarily the couple, but also their families, make their culture more important than Islam. If parental support is there for an intercultural marriage, things are smoother for the couple. If there is not, and if there is even hostile opposition on the part of one or both sets of parents, it could be better to not marry the person in the long run.
10. Lack of domestic skills
While girls are being encouraged to become scientists, engineers and doctors, for instance, there is little to no emphasis being placed on gaining domestic skills. It should be remembered that in Islam, while women are not forbidden from working within Islamic guidelines, and men are encouraged to help with housework, women's primary duty is within the home as a home manager and mother. As a result of the lack of domestic skills, many married couples find themselves in messy homes, where meals lack proper nutrition and in general, there is frustration.
If a married couple is working, husbands need to pitch in more in the home and remember that their wife is a not a machine, but a human being who also needs rest after a hard day of work.
11. The modern Muslim woman meets the old-fashioned Muslim man
While young Muslim women of the West are being encouraged to be strong and confident, boys are being raised in the same way and with the same cultural expectations as their fathers. As a result, young couples face a tug of war, when the old-fashioned, young Muslim boy won't lift a finger around the house (since he never saw his dad do this) and his young Muslim wife expects him to pitch in, as the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) did with his wives.
As well, a number of young Muslim men expect their wives not to argue with them since they never saw their mother cross their father. This is once again cultural. But what is clear is that boys and girls are being raised very differently. Parents have to be more careful to give proper training
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Saturday, March 27, 2010
IRAQI ELECTIONS AN HISTORIC ACHIEVEMENT, UN SAYS AS RESULTS OF VOTE ARE ANNOUNCED
Iraqi parliamentary elections this month were credible and no evidence has been found of any systematic or widespread fraud during the vote count, the top United Nations official in the country said today after authorities announced the final election results.
Ad Melkert, the Secretary-General's Special Representative to Iraq and the head of the UN political mission (known as <"http://www.uniraq.org/">UNAMI) to the country, said in a statement that Iraqis deserved credit for "an historic achievement."
The Independent High Electoral Commission (IHEC) of Iraq unveiled the results tonight local time for the national polls on 7 March, in which more than 6,000 candidates competed for 325 seats in the Council of Representatives. At least 12 million people cast their votes.
Media reports indicate that the party headed by Iyad Allawi, the former prime minister, holds a narrow lead over the party of Nuri al-Maliki, the current premier, in the number of parliamentary seats won.
Mr. Melkert called on all candidates to accept the results of the polls and "to assume responsibility to lead Iraq to the next stage of democracy, stability and prosperity for all. Whether winning or losing, participation in the elections has been a collective victory."
UNAMI assisted IHEC with advice and support during the pre- and post-election process, and the Special Representative said the independent authority carried out its responsibility of staging the elections with dedication.
"No election in the world is perfect. There were imperfections and at some places serious issues. We condemn acts of intimidation that have occurred in the course of the process."
In his statement Mr. Melkert said UN officials were confident that the counting process contained the necessary checks and balances, and "there is now a solid basis for ratification by the Supreme Court" of the results.
"All results of almost 50,000 voting stations have been checked at least eight times. On the basis of specific complaints submitted by different entities, specific audits have been held on places with indications of irregularities. Ballot boxes that could not stand the test have not been included in the count. We have not found evidence of systematic failure or fraud of widespread nature."
Mr. Melkert added that the conclusion was therefore that the overall election process, including the campaigning period, polling day and the count "has met reasonable demands and standards, with errors and doubts remaining within normal margins."
Mr. Melkert, Secretary-General Ban Ki-moon and Security Council members congratulated Iraqis in the immediate aftermath of polling day earlier this month for exercising their democratic rights and for the relative lack of violent incidents.
Allawi's coalition tops Iraq's parliamentary election
Former Iraqi Prime Minister Ayad Allawi is all smiles as the full election results released Friday for Iraq's parliament showed his party winning the most seats. (AP)
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BAGHDAD: Secularist challenger Iyad Allawi's coalition won the most seats in Iraq's parliamentary election with Prime Minister Nuri Al-Maliki running a close second, according to preliminary results released on Friday.
Allawi's cross-sectarian Iraqiya coalition won 91 seats to 89 seats for Al-Maliki's State of Law bloc.
Al-Maliki said he did not accept the results released on Friday because they were "not final."
"The election results are not final," Al-Maliki told a press conference in Baghdad. "Of course we don't accept this result because it is preliminary."
The tight race and Allawi's strong support in Sunni-dominated northern provinces raised the prospect of long and potentially divisive talks on forming a new government.
The Iraqi National Alliance, a Shiite grouping whose leaders have close ties to neighboring Iran, came third with 70 seats and Kurdistania, comprised of the autonomous Kurdish region's two long-dominant blocs, won 43 seats, according to the full preliminary results released by the Independent High Electoral Commission, 19 days after the parliamentary election.
The US ambassador to Baghdad and the top American military commander in Iraq, in a joint statement, gave their blessing to the outcome. "We support the findings of international and independent Iraqi observers, who ... have found that there is no evidence of widespread or serious fraud," said ambassador Christopher Hill and General Ray Odierno.
Allawi's victory in the March 7 poll signals he will be given the first opportunity to form a government, which would require a coalition holding at least a majority of 163 seats. If he fails to do so within 30 days, Iraq's president, who himself is elected by Parliament, would choose the leader of another bloc to try to form a coalition government.
The top official for the United Nations in Iraq said the UN has determined Iraq's elections were credible and called on all sides to accept the results. The comments by Ad Melkert came hours after a twin bombing near a restaurant in a city north of Baghdad killed at least 40 people.
The police spokesman for Diyala province, Capt. Ghalib Al-Karkhi, said dozens more were also injured in the blasts in the town of Khalis, some 80 km north of the capital. Another police official, Salah Mohammed, said one of the explosions was a car bomb and the other a suicide bomber.
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UN HUMAN RIGHTS COUNCIL CALLS FOR INDEPENDENT INQUIRY INTO GAZA CONFLICT
The United Nations <"http://www2.ohchr.org/english/bodies/hrcouncil/">Human Rights Council today, echoing the General Assembly, called on the Israeli Government and the Palestinian side to carry out independent and credible investigations into the deadly conflict in the Gaza Strip that ended early last year.
Those inquiries, the Council said in Geneva, must look into the serious violations of international humanitarian and human rights law reported by the fact-finding mission into the Operation Cast Lead, the three-week Israeli military offensive starting at the end of 2008 that had the stated aim of ending rocket attacks by militants operating in the area.
The fighting left more than 1,400 people dead, injured 5,000 others and reduced homes, schools, hospitals and marketplaces to rubble.
The Goldstone Report, as it has become known, found that both Israeli forces and Palestinian militants were guilty of serious human rights violations and breaches of humanitarian law during the Gaza conflict, which began in late December 2008. The General Assembly has endorsed the mission's findings.
The four-member fact-finding team headed by former UN war crimes prosecutor Justice Richard Goldstone, set up at the request of the Human Rights Council, called on the two sides to carry out independent investigations into their actions during the conflict.
The Human Rights Council today also called on the High Commissioner for Human Rights, Navi Pillay, to look into setting up an escrow fund to provide reparations to Palestinians who suffered losses as a result of unlawful Israeli actions during the conflict.
It also decided to establish a committee of independent experts to monitor the independence, effective and genuineness of the investigations and their conformity with international standards.
Earlier this month, the General Assembly also appealed for independent investigations by Israel and the Palestinians, reiterating a call by Secretary-General Ban Ki-moon in a follow-up report to the Goldstone Report that they must conform with "international standards into the serious violations of international humanitarian and international human rights law reported by the fact-finding mission, towards ensuring accountability and justice."
During its meeting in Geneva today, the Human Rights Council also took action on the situation of human rights in the Democratic People's Republic of Korea (DPRK), extending the mandate of the Special Rapporteur covering the Asian nation for one year, Vitit Muntarbhorn.
RAPE MUST NEVER BE MINIMIZED AS PART OF CULTURAL TRADITIONS, UN ENVOY SAYS
Sexual violence during conflicts is all too often downplayed and treated as part of local cultural traditions instead of being viewed as a war crime, a senior United Nations official has warned as she called for much greater international action to defeat the scourge.
Margot Wallström, the recently appointed Secretary-General's Special Representative on Sexual Violence in Conflict, voiced concern about the "lingering assumption that sexual violence is a tradition, rather than a tactic of choice" by groups engaged in war.
"Prevailing opinion would have us believe that what happens in a 'private hut' has nothing to do with security," she wrote in the Oslo newspaper <i>Dagsavisen</i> on Tuesday in a column jointly authored with Jonas Gahr Støre, Norwegian Foreign Minister.
"While bullets, bombs and blades make the headlines, women's bodies remain invisible battlefields. Yet it is utterly indefensible to downgrade the threat level of sexual violence because it primarily targets women and girls. What makes forced displacement part of the war, and mass rape an intractable cultural trait?"
Ms. Wallström and Mr. Støre wrote that there are only cultures of impunity, and not cultures of rape, as some commentators have argued in certain countries or conflicts.
"Cultural relativism legitimizes the violence and discredits the victims, because when you accept rape as cultural, you make rape inevitable. This shields the perpetrators and allows world leaders to shrug off sexual violence as an immutable – if regrettable – truth. It is time to state, once and for all, that mass rape is no more inevitable, cultural or acceptable than mass murder."
The Special Representative – who is visiting Norway on her first official visit since being appointed by the UN – and the Foreign Minister stressed that the best way to overcome this problem is to ensure that perpetrators of rape and other forms of sexual violence are held accountable.
"We are convinced that where there's a political will, there's a way. Every rape – even in the midst of war – is a crime that can be commanded, condoned or condemned. That is a choice made by those in power, and it is a matter that concerns the guardians of global peace and security.
Madaxweyne, Wasiir aan Wax Ku Tari Karin Waxba Kuma Yeeli Karo..!
Waa Sunnaha dawladnimo Sannadkiiba mar ama wax ka badan in la isku shaandheeyo ama'se qaarkood xilkaba laga xayuubiyo Golaha Xukuumadda ee markaa jira, si markaa talaabadaasi u noqoto mid kalsooni cusub ku abuurta shacbi-weynaha.
Geesta kale-na u noqoto mid wax ka bedesha dhaqanka ama dareenka Wasiirada ku digo-jabsaday Wasaaradaha qaarkood. Sidaa darteed talaabadii Madaxweyne Rayaale uu xilalkii ay hayeen ugu kala wareejiyey xubno ka mid ah Golaha Wasiirada iyo Aggaasimayaasha Guud ee Wasaaradaha qaarkood, ayaa noqotay mid dad badani soo dhoweeyeen una arkeen Madaxweyne Rayaale shaqsi ku baraarugsan dareenka bulshadiisa.
Dadka aaminsan in arrintaa Madaxweynuhu ku talaabadsaday tahay mid waqti ku haboon timi, waxay doodahooda daliil uga dhigayeen khilaafkii ka dhex aloosnaa Masuuliyiinta Wasaaradda Caafimaadka, khilaafkaa soo markii danbe sababay inuu gebi ahaan-ba uu is taago xidhiidhkii wada shaqayneed ee Wasaarada iyo inuu hakad galo addeegii Caafimaad ee Cisbitaalka Guud ee Magaalada Hargeysa, halkaa soo maalin walba addeeg Caafimaad u soo doona jireen Boqolaal oo dan'yar ah, oo iyagu aan awood inay tagaan goobaha Caafimaadka ee loo yaqaano PRIVET-KA.
Haddaba, markaa taa laga yimaado, waxa jira Wasiiro, Wasiir-ku-xigeeno ama Aggaasimayaal kale oo kuwaa aynu soo sheegnay aan waxba dhaamin, tusaale ahaan marka loo eego dhinaca waxqabadkooda, kuwaa soo Boqolkiiba Sagaashan aan fulin adeegii looga baahnaa inay bulshada u qabtaan, isla markaana waqtigoodu ku dhammaysta faro gelinta hawlo iyo siyaasado kale oo aanay Xukuumadu u igman. Sida safaro ay ugu baxaan meelo dalka dibadiisa ama gudihiisa iyo mararka qaarkood oo ay Sheeko la dhex fadhiistaan Xafiisyada Wasaaradahooda, halka qaar kale ay xafiisaydooda uga maqnaadaan, iyagoo ka cararaya SHAXAAD.
Dhinaca kale, waxa jira Wasiiro, Wasiir-ku-xigeeno ama Aggaasimayaal aad moodo inay DHAXAL ama YARAD u heleen xilalka ay hayaan, kuwaasoo qaarkood ay Xafiisyada fadhiyeen muddo Toddoba sanno ku dhow, iyadoo haba yaraatee aanay jirin wax wanaag ah oo lagu xushay, isla markaana ay KHAATI BILAA bulshadu ka taagan tahay.
Masuuliyiintaa soo marka dadweynuhu iska warsado sababta Madaxweyne Rayale ugu dhegan yahay, dadka qaarkood ku micneeyaan in Madaxweynuhu uga habranayo arrimha doorashada awgood, isagoo aaminsan in Wasiirka ama Aggaasimaha uu xilka ka qaadaa inuu taageerayaal badan oo Codadkooda siin lahaa ka lumin doonaan marka la gaadho Doorashada, balse arintu sidaa maaha, waxay'se xaqiiqadu tahay "TIISABA DARYEELAA TU-KALENA KU DARA." Markaa Madaxweyne Wasiir ama Aggaasime markii uu xilka hayey aan waxba tarin [Xukuumada], markuu kaa tagana waxba ma yeeli karo Xukuumada iyo Adiga toona.
Waxa kaloo, xusid mudan in Wasaarada Madaxtooyadu oo iyadu hadda aan shaqo badan qaban ay ku dhaqaaqdo sidii ay dabogal ugu samayn lahayd Wasiirada ama Wasaaradaha si markaa ay warbixin sugan uga siiso Madaxweynaha Wasiirada ama Wasaaradaha fadhiidka ah.
Si kastaba ha ahaatee, waxa Madaxweyne Rayaale la gudboon inuu ku dhiirado sidii uu arimahaa u surto-gelin lahaa si la mid ah talaabadii uu ku kala wareejiyey masuuliyiintii Wasaarada Caafimaadka, arintaa soo dad badani ku boogaadiyeen Madaxweynaha Rayaale
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